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3 Reasons Men Think the Women on HotRussianBrides Are Scammers, Aren’t Serious

6. October 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

The two biggest worries men have about Russian women and Russian dating sites like HotRussianBrides.com are that the ladies are scammers or that they aren’t serious about finding love. Here are 3 things women do that fuel these concerns, but aren’t as damning as they first appear.  


She Chats With Multiple Men

What men think it means: Some men think that the ladies on HotRussianBrides chat with multiple gentlemen because they are paid to do so or because they want gifts and attention and aren’t truly serious about finding a partner.  

What it actually means:
The ladies chat with multiple gentlemen for the same reason men chat with multiple women: they want to save time and improve their chances of finding a great match by getting to know several people at once. However, unlike the gentlemen, the ladies’ time at a computer is limited so it is even more important that they use their time on HotRussianBrides wisely.


She Writes General Letters

What men think it means: At times, a gentleman will receive a general letter from a lady, usually an introduction letter, and think the lack of personal details means the lady is paid to write as many letters as possible and isn’t sincere about finding a match.   

What it actually means: The ladies, like the men, send general letters (at least at first) because it saves time and the “getting to know” you conversations are essentially the same. Once a man reciprocates a lady’s interest and shares a few intriguing details, the letters will get more personal. 


She Has Sexy Profile Photos

What men think it means: Some believe that the sexily-dressed women on HotRussianBrides are bait designed to lure men into using the service, that a lady in lingerie or a bikini couldn’t possibly be serious about finding love, or even that the ladies are sex workers of some kind. 

What it actually means:
The women want to get a man’s attention. There are thousands of beautiful women on HotRussianBrides, the ladies know this, and they want to stand out in some way. Sexy photos are an easy and effective way to do this. Many of the ladies also work hard to look good and want to show off their physical achievements.

While some scammers do chat with multiple men, write general letters, and/or post sexy profile photos, these three things are not definite indications of insincerity or dishonest behavior. Gentlemen should try to consider a lady's side as a potential Russian bride and try not to jump to conclusions.