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11. November 2009 by Daniel 0 Comments

We often hear from members of HotRussianBrides.com that the amount of e-mails they receive from the Russian ladies on our site is overwhelming. New members frequently receive hundreds of e-mails within days of joining the site.


There is a variety of reasons for this. Many of the ladies have a limited amount of time to spend at the agency offices at which they access HotRussianBrides.com, therefore they seek to send as many e-mails to new members as they can in the hopes that they will catch someone’s eye. Additionally, some agencies encourage their ladies to send an abundance of e-mails in order to increase the likelihood of a gentleman responding.


While the frequency of the e-mails can seem overwhelming, there are ways you can manage you correspondence.


How to Respond

Rather than respond to the ladies who e-mail them, many gentlemen choose to ignore the messages they receive, deeming it impossible to respond to them all. While it is understandable that you may not be able to respond to every lady’s request to communicate, ignoring all of them is not the right approach. We recommend sampling just a handful of the messages you receive and trying to find at least two or three ladies with whom you would like to correspond. Replying to at least one e-mail per day is a good way to keep your correspondence manageable. In addition to the e-mail she sends, remember to also examine each lady’s individual profile and add her to you black book in order that you may easily access her information in the future.


It is often the case that ladies will ask a lot of specific questions in their initial e-mails in order to break the ice and spark a meaningful conversation. Use these as a starting point and work on exploring the possibilities of a relationship from there. Remember to always ask her a lot of questions about herself, her life, her interests, etc. At the same time, let her know about yourself while being as honest as possible and without revealing too much too early.


Why Should You Respond?

Once you narrow your correspondence to a handful of ladies, you will find it much easier to manage your search for your Russian bride. The number of e-mails you receive from ladies at HotRussianBrides.com should not be seen as a burden, but rather an advantage, giving you an expanded selection of ladies to choose from. On other dating Web sites, you may only receive one or two e-mails. On HotRussianBrides.com, the amount of e-mails you receive ensures you that the ladies are real and serious about their search for a foreign gentleman. You are free to pick and choose to which ladies you want to devote your attention.


Why it helps to be a Premium Member

If you are a Bronze-level member of HotRussianBrides.com, you must open an e-mail in order to delete it from your inbox. This will cost 10 credits per e-mail and it is why we recommend upgrading to one of our paid membership levels if you are seriously interested in corresponding with the Russian ladies. Silver, Gold, and Platinum members can read e-mails and even delete them without reading at no additional cost.


A HotRussianBrides.com membership gives you access to an entire pool of ladies that competing dating Web sites do not. If you are not already a member, there is no better reason for you to sign up today.