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Are You Being Too Aggressive?

17. May 2011 by Christy 0 Comments

No luck finding a special lady on HotRussianBrides.com? Perhaps you’re being too aggressive. While it can be flattering when someone of the opposite sex is aggressive in their pursuit, there’s a fine line between being persistent and being creepy.

So, what sort of behavior is “too aggressive?” Prematurely pushing for a physical meeting and/or marriage is one good example. While a lady likely appreciates your enthusiasm, pressuring her to commit when she isn’t ready is sure to make her feel uneasy. Rather than pushing for a meeting or contact details right away, take your time. Get to know a lady. There’s no need into rush things. Men who expect face-to-face meetings and marriage too soon are often disappointed.

Peppering a lady with emails, demanding to know why she hasn’t written back is another example of overly aggressive behavior. Refusing to take no for answer is also ill advised. Some men are under the mistaken impression that the ladies of HotRussianBrides are open to the advances of any foreign gentlemen, but this simply isn’t the case. The ladies are free to correspond with whoever they want and are under no obligation to respond to every expression of interest. If a lady doesn’t respond to your emails or indicates that you’re not her type then the best course of action is to just let it go. Making demands or issuing insults will get you nowhere.


“When I see something I want, I won’t give up until I have it.” While this approach may work in business, it’s not so good for Russian dating as overly aggressive men can be a huge turn off. If you're having a tough time finding a Russian love match perhaps it's time to tone down your approach.