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Are You Hiding Your True Self?

31. October 2012 by Dasha 0 Comments

When it comes to online dating, Russian or otherwise, many singles hide their true self in an attempt to impress potential matches. While it’s natural to want to embellish or exaggerate certain facts about your life or portray a certain image, shielding your true identity can make it difficult to find a real match.   

Men can obscure their true personality in a number of ways. Some men try to act cool and aloof, while others exaggerate or fabricate details about their lives to appear well off. Some fellows try to be an over-the-top Alpha male, while others feign being sensitive and emotional. If you actually are one of these things, that’s fine. However, problems arise when you try to be something you’re not.

Though you may be shy or insecure, it’s ultimately better to be the real you than the type of person you think others find attractive. It’s the only way to find a woman who loves you as you are rather than one who is in love with your false persona. Not only is pretending to be something you’re not exhausting and deceitful, but it’s also utterly pointless because sooner or later the truth will come out. After all, you can’t hide your true self forever.

As the old saying goes, just be yourself. There are thousands of women on HotRussianBrides.com, with more joining everyday. Chances are good there’s a lady out there who will be interested in the real you. Sign up now to start your search!