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Be Honest With Yourself

25. October 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

When it comes to dating, be it traditional dating, online dating, or international dating, it’s important for men and women to be honest, honest with their partners and honest with themselves. Here are two ways Russian bride suitors tend to deceive themselves and how a refusal to face the truth can thwart the search for a lifelong partner.


It’s Not Me, It’s You

When things don’t work out with a lady on HotRussianBrides.com some gentlemen are quick to deny all of the blame. “She’s a scammer,” they say. “She’s not serious. She’s greedy. She’s a liar. She led me on.” The reasons go on and on. What these gentlemen don’t consider, however, is their own role in the breakup. Perhaps they were too aggressive, too vulgar, too needy, too negative, or perhaps the couple was simply incompatible. If a gentleman wants to find a bride, Russian or otherwise, he must be willing to acknowledge his faults and willing to work on them. Sure, there are times when one person is completely to blame for the failure of a relationship. However, if a gentleman has had a series of failed relationships chances are good he is a problem as well, not just the ladies.


I Have High Standards

Thanks to the myths and stereotypes surrounding the Russian dating industry, some men develop unrealistic expectations about the kind of women they can attract. Russian women are not desperate to leave their home country and most ladies will not marry a man unless there is some kind of mental and physical attraction, regardless of the amount of money in his bank account. Can a young, sexy, model truly fall in love with an overweight man 20+ years her senior? Sure, but it’s not likely and men who will only talk to young, thin, beautiful women when they themselves are not so young, thin, or handsome will almost certainly be very disappointed with the Russian dating experience. Men who are honest with themselves when it comes to the type of women they are likely to attract have a much better chance of success than men who don’t.

Honesty with one’s self is just as important as honesty with a partner. If a gentleman wants to be successful on HotRussianBrides.com, he should always try to be honest with himself, even if it’s unpleasant or hurtful. Only then, will he have the best chance of finding a Russian bride.