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Beware of Beginning Conversation Blunders

18. February 2010 by Michelle 0 Comments

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Some men have the gift of gab, never running out of things to talk about with women, while others are quieter types. Russian women generally enjoy chatting about any number of things, and since you probably have different cultures and backgrounds, you should be able to come up with plenty of things to say. Knowing what not to talk about in your initial conversations is valuable Russian dating advice.

 

Don’t talk about exes

It may feel natural to discuss past experiences of your love life, but this is not a good conversation topic at first. Your opening dialogue should be light and intriguing, not bogged down by messy breakup stories and emotional baggage.

 

Don’t talk about money

If you’ve got a lot, don’t brag about it. If you don’t have much, don’t whine about it. Financial stability is fine to discuss with your Russian lady, but only after you’ve gotten to know her a little more. Also, don’t mention how much you pay to chat with her online, thinking that may impress her, because it won’t.

 

Don’t talk about sex

With all of the provocative photos on HotRussianBrides.com, it would be foolish to say that men aren’t thinking about sex. But you don’t want to embarrass or offend the ladies by making lewd or crude remarks. You should always be a respectable gentleman; that will impress them.

 

Don’t talk about scams

Russian women take their online search for love very seriously. If you immediately hound her with questions about Russian bride scams or blacklists that you’ve read about on the internet, she will most likely get upset or just ignore your inquiries all together. Don’t waste time talking about rumors and hearsay when you can learn about her life, her family, and how she will mesh with yours.

 

Once you begin feeling a connection with a particular Russian or Ukrainian lady, then you can open up more and start discussing more personal and private matters. Remember, the initial conversations should just scratch the surface and help discover if you’re both comfortable taking your communication to the next level.