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Beware of Surprise Visits

5. June 2012 by Dasha 0 Comments

Thinking of surprising a special woman with an unannounced visit? You might want to rethink that strategy. While a surprise visit sounds adventurous and romantic, the ladies tend to see things a bit differently. Plus, the woman you want to meet might be unavailable.

It’s important to note that women on international dating sites can't men on demand. Just like the Western men who court them, Russian ladies have school, family, and work obligations which lead to packed schedules. That’s why it’s important that a gentleman communicate with a woman and plan a trip around both schedules, not just his own.

A gentleman should also ask himself how he would feel if a woman met online showed up in his city without any warning. Irritated? Shocked? Freaked out? The ladies feel the same way.

Most gentlemen plan surprise visits because they want to be impulsive and romantic, save time getting to know a lady, or all of the above. However, a surprise visit can backfire if it makes a woman feel uncomfortable or if a lady is unavailable to meet her Western suitor. Men who are patient and considerate and take the time to plan a first visit typically have better luck than those who don’t.