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Casual Dating Vs. Looking for a Spouse

19. January 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

Generally speaking, there are three kinds of people on HotRussianBrides.com: those who are interested in casual dating, those who are seriously seeking a future spouse, and those who fall somewhere in between. While there is nothing wrong with any of these approaches, it’s important to be upfront about your intentions and to understand that a lady may not have the same relationship goal as you.


Many people join our site with the hopes of meeting someone interesting and then developing a relationship from there. If marriage happens, great, but it is not always the immediate goal. Other individuals sign up for our service with the intention of finding a husband or wife as quickly as possible. Sometimes a gentleman in one group will fall for a woman in the other, or vice versa, and the couple’s conflicting goals lead to strife.


To avoid anger and frustration, it’s best to figure out what kind of relationship you are seeking on HotRussianBrides and then pursue a lady with similar goals. If you are looking for a potential spouse, you don’t want to waste your time on a lady who has no intention of ever marrying, and if you are seeking for a casual relationship you may want to avoid a woman who is itching to commit. Be realistic about your expectations and try to share your intentions upfront to avoid any misunderstandings. If your feelings or intentions should change, talk about it. Good communication will ensure that you and a lady are always on the same page when it comes to the status, and future, of your relationship. 


It’s important for a gentleman to understand that every lady on HotRussianBrides is different and that not every woman is looking for the same kind of relationship as him. Realistic expectations and good communication is the key to finding a woman with compatible goals.