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Don’t Make the First Date the Last Date

6. October 2009 by Admin 0 Comments

After searching countless profiles on HotRussianBrides.com, you have found a woman you are interested in meeting. So after corresponding a few times, you both agree to your first web date. If you want to ensure that your first date will not be your last date, keep in mind the following advice.


Do Not Be Late
No matter if you are meeting someone for coffee, dinner, a drink, or an online date no one likes to be kept waiting. Many of the ladies on HotRussianBrides.com travel great distances and pay for the time they are on the internet. They are sacrificing their time and money to meet you. Be early! For example, if you agree to meet online at Noon, be online no later than 11:50 a.m.  This shows her that you respect her as a person and value her time. Remember, there is a time difference of anywhere between 3 and 12 hours between you and her depending on where you live.

I Am So Great
We all want let everyone know about what we have done in our lives but remember it’s not all about you! Women hate it when the entire conversation is about you. Women do want to know about your accomplishments, your home, family etc. but not your entire history, including your family tree, on the first date. Ask her about her life, what her dreams are, what she likes to eat, where she likes to go on holiday, what are her favorite sports, etc. Make her the star. Let her know you are truly interested in her.  Remember, to be an onion. As an onion has different layers, so do you. Another example is the great Sir Alfred Hitchcock. In his films, he kept you guessing until the end. He always had good story details that were not revealed until much later in the movie. Which kept you in your seat, watching. Let her discover you on future dates. What’s the fun in finding everything out in the beginning? 

My Ex
There is a reason you are a member of HotRussianBrides.com, you are looking for a mate or a special friend. When you are online dating she does not want to hear the whole sorted story of you and your ex. Let’s turn it around; would you want to listen to her go on and on about her ex?   No. so why would she? Bear in mind you are starting anew. Any old thoughts, bad experiences, ways of doing things will only undermine your new life experience. As the old saying goes, what’s past is past. Leave it there.

Too Eager
It’s understandable that you are very excited about meeting different and stimulating beautiful Russian women but keep in mind being too eager can be a turn off to women. On your first date if you are already planning the wedding and honeymoon, the lady is more than likely already looking for another date. The whole point to dating is finding the right person for you. It is very rare that someone finds the perfect person right off the bat. Bear in mind that dating is a two way street. The ladies are also looking for the right person.

Following these simple suggestions are great ways to ensure that your first date with a lady on HotRussianBrides.com will not be your last.