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Don't Spread Yourself Too Thin

27. January 2011 by Christy 0 Comments

Many gentlemen are surprised by the amount of email they receive on HotRussianBrides.com, and it’s natural for members to want to respond to as many ladies as possible. However, this strategy isn’t as fun or as effective as it may seem.


More often than not, men who try to reply to everyone become frustrated, confused, or disappointed with the Russian dating process. Why? Attempting to keep up with so many exchanges is time consuming, in addition to being hard work, and it’s confusing to keep multiple ladies straight or remember who said what and when. Not only that, but men who respond to every woman who initiates contact, regardless if she is a good match, give up time they could use to search for or get to know women who are a good match. A lack of time with a quality lady is what leads to disappointment.


So what should gentlemen do instead of responding to all, or most of, the women who shoot them an email? It’s simple. Members should reply only to the ladies they wish to pursue further. They don’t have to apologize to the women who don’t interest them or explain why the two aren’t a good match. Many members worry about hurting the ladies’ feelings, but most women understand that a gentleman can’t get back to everyone. Furthermore, the girls don’t want to waste their time on someone who isn’t interested.


There’s nothing wrong with deleting an unsolicited email. Men who wish to be successful on HotRussianBrides should try to use their time on the site wisely, rather than spreading themselves too thin.