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Handling Dating Disappointment

24. October 2012 by Lorena 0 Comments

Even on a Russian dating site, where the odds are stacked in your favor, you are not going to find love instantly. You are not going to be compatible with every lady who catches your eye. It can be demoralizing, but, you need to keep your hopes up if you are going to find the one for you. So, what’s a gentleman to do?


Stay Upbeat

The one for you is out there. It is just going to take some time and commitment to find her. Stay optimistic and keep on trying. The only guarantee that we can make is that, if you do not try to talk to the ladies, you will definitely not meet anyone.


Stay Positive in Your Conversations with the Ladies

Do not complain to ladies about other ladies who have rejected you. Do not say things like “I hope that you’re serious,” or “I don’t want to talk to anyone who isn’t looking for marriage.” This puts a lady on the defensive, which is not a fortuitous place for starting a romance.


Stay Off the Blacklist Sites

There is nothing that is more sure to make you feel hopeless than reading the ravings of bitter people who have lost hope. To stay positive and happy, it’s better to read positive things. The correlation between the sorts of emotions we surround ourselves with and the ones that we wind up feeling is very well established. Instead of dwelling on the negatives when you are down, do something more uplifting, like reading over our testimonials from couples who found each other on Hot Russian Brides.


Try Different Conversation Tactics

You’ve heard the saying: insanity is doing the same thing you’ve always done and expecting different results. If you have not successfully made a match, whether in Russian or local dating, try out new tactics. For instance, assess whether your messages are ones that are likely to start conversations. Or, consider talking to ladies in an older age group, or ones who have lifestyle factors, like children or a prior marriage, that you previously did not consider.


There are thousands of Russian ladies on our site looking for love and marriage. Keep a positive attitude and an open mind, and you’ll eventually find the right one for you. Still looking? Log on now to chat with single Russian ladies.

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