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How To Handle Russian Bride Rejection

16. August 2010 by Michelle 0 Comments

In order to be successful at any type of dating, singles must learn early on how to deal with rejection. It happens to everyone at one time or another and it will happen while dating Russian women online as well. However, you don’t have to let it ruin your hopes of finding your perfect match.

 

Expect It

Russian brides are often so friendly and loving that some guys can’t imagine being turned down by one. While they may be sociable and open at the beginning, not all ladies will want to continue corresponding if they don’t feel a connection. Expecting this reality up front will make it easier.

 

Don’t Dwell On it

When rejected by someone, you want to know why. Was it something about your profile, or something you mentioned in chat or an email? While some say it’s ok to ask, it may be better to use your time (and credits) more wisely by chatting up a new lady instead. What one woman didn’t like may be what the next woman loves about you.

 

Rushing to Judgment

Since hot Russian brides say they are serious about finding a match and eager to get married, some gentlemen assume they will accept proposals from anyone and exchange contact info without thinking twice. Therefore, when some men get rejected, they think the woman must be a scammer! This is often how the infamous and inaccurate blacklists are started. Rather than dealing with rejection like gentlemen, some guys rush to judgment and seek revenge.

 

Despite the rumors, myths, and stereotypes surrounding the Russian bride industry, this method of matchmaking is not a drive-thru or "add to cart" way of finding a wife. You’ll still experience many of the same emotions and stages of the more conventional ways of dating, including rejection. Know that it’s bound to happen, take it like a man, and move on the next beautiful Russian bride!