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How to Be the Confident, Optimistic Man Russian Women Want

4. January 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

Russian women like confident, optimistic men. In fact, optimism and self-confidence top the list of things that turn Russian women on (number 5 and 6 respectively). Ever wonder how you can be the confident, optimistic man that Russian women want? Here are a few simple tips. 

 

Smile and Laugh

The simplest way to exude confidence and positivity is to smile and laugh. Post a photo (or photos) of you smiling. Don’t be afraid to smile and laugh during video chat sessions. While some men think frowning or staring intently at the camera is cool, women are more likely to gravitate to men who seem friendly and approachable.

 

Don’t Accuse

Few things will offend a Russian lady faster than a scammer accusation. While scammers certainly exist, paranoia also plagues the Russian dating industry and it is often a man’s insecurities that cause him to doubt a Russian woman’s intentions. Don’t interrogate a Russian lady or ask if she’s a scammer unless you have a VERY good reason to do so. Unjust accusations will only make you seem bitter and insecure.

 

Have a Positive Attitude

Maintain a positive attitude when it comes to Russiand dating. Don’t complain to ladies about the cost of Russian dating sites or tell a lady you are probably wasting your time looking for love in Russia or the Ukraine. This will only seem insecure and pessimistic.

 

Avoid Depressing Topics

If you want to appear optimistic, avoid depressing topics (at least in the first few emails). The troubled economy, wars, health issues, family deaths, and failed relationships are all bummers.  In general, it’s best to get to know a lady before delving into serious and/or troubling subjects.


Smiles, laughter, and a positive attitude will go a long way in attracting a Russian woman. While it may be tempting to brood and dwell on the negative, such behavior will not do you any favors when it comes to Russian dating.