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How to Flirt with a Russian Lady Online

2. October 2009 by Daniel 0 Comments

So you like her. And you want her to like you. Now how do you make it happen?

Breaking the ice to establish a relationship with any lady can be tricky, especially when it starts online. Here are some tips on how to make an impression and bridge the online divide.

The first and most important rule of all is this: be yourself. Trying to be something you’re not can mean the death of any potential future dates. If you’re uncomfortable, she will be uncomfortable. Being who you really are sends a message of confidence. And there is nothing that women like more than a confident man.

While maintaining the air of a gentleman is sure to charm any lady, most especially a Russian lady, it is especially important to ensure that you convey this effectively via the Internet. Simple things – such as saying “please” and “thank you” – can go a long way and demonstrate a well-mannered character.

The next most important thing is to ask her about herself. Be inquisitive. Don’t spend an entire chat session talking about yourself. Ask about her life. What does she do? What’s her family like? What are her hopes and dreams? If she says a lot, it’s a good thing.

Along with that, be liberal with your compliments to her. Tell her you think she’s pretty. Comment on her smile or her hair style.

Be funny. Lighthearted humor can work wonders in gaining the key to your lady’s heart. But keep it simple. Stay away from crude humor and avoid telling long, complicated jokes.

Lastly, don’t try to rush things to a heavily romantic level right away. Remember that slow and steady wins the race. It’s best if you treat her the same way you would a friend at first. After that, a romantic relationship can come naturally and gradually.