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How to Make Your Russian Ladies Interested in You

12. October 2009 by Daniel 0 Comments

So you’ve spent some time on HotRussianBrides.com browsing through hundreds of lovely Russian ladies profiles. You’ve decided which ones you like and sent your introduction e-mails. And nothing. The ladies just don’t seem interested. So what gives?

There is a number of possible reasons why you might not have received much of a response to your initial attempts to communicate with our ladies. And while it may be difficult to gauge the exact reasons for an individual lady’s perceived lack of interest, there are a few steps you can follow when communicating to show the ladies how much you have to offer.

Don’t be Negative

For one thing, avoid speaking in the negative. Don’t complain about your work, people in your life, or anything else. Maintain an upbeat positive image and stay optimistic. If you do this, the ladies will see you as someone interesting and fun to be with.

Show Interest in Your Lady

Demonstrate an interest in her life. If a lady tells you something unique about herself, be it her career, her ambitions, her family, etc. – ask follow-up questions. Be inquisitive. Try to relate what she tells you to something you’ve experienced in your own life.

Show Her How You’re Unique

Showcase that which makes you unique. If she asks what you do for fun, don’t simply tell her you like movies or music or books (if that’s your thing). Name some specific movies that you really enjoyed. Name a popular band whose concert you attended. Talk about an author whose works you enjoy. The more specific you are, the more unique you will come across to her.

Stay Honest

Lastly, and most importantly, be honest. Putting up a false front is a terrible way to begin any relationship and can only lead to negative consequences. If a lady likes you, it will be for who you really are and not for something you pretend to be.

A good rule of thumb is to treat the Russian ladies you correspond with as though they are the most important people in the world. Stay positive, show interest, make yourself unique, and always be honest.