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How to Manage Multiple Courtships

1. October 2012 by Lorena 0 Comments

As you may already know, we recommend that gentlemen on Hot Russian Brides converse with  several ladies in order to increase their chances of finding someone they connect with. But, if you are a traditional fellow who is not accustomed to playing the field, this can feel a bit unnatural. Our tips can make it easier for you to gracefully manage courtship with more than one lady.


Don’t Lie and Say You Are More Deeply Involved Than You Are

Just as you would prefer not to be led on, Russian brides do not wish to be told that you are more serious than you are. Remember, you are both adults indulging in the process of getting to know one another. It is perfectly okay to enjoy one another’s company without pretense. If you do find that you become quite taken with one another over time, it is, of course, okay to say that. But, don’t pretend to feel things that you do not.


Do Not Talk About Other Ladies

While we do not suggest lying, it is best to be discreet about the other women who you are chatting with. And, when you chat with your Russian sweetheart, never compare her to other ladies on the site. That can only lead to hurt feelings.


Be Aware That the Ladies You Chat with Talk to Other Gentlemen, As Well

The ladies on the site are trying to find love, the same as you are. Sometimes, they’ll be chatting with one guy for a while and he will disappear or stop answering her messages. To prevent investing a lot of time in someone who might lose interest, ladies will often start by talking to several gentlemen. It does not signify a lack of seriousness; rather, it is a way for her to increase her chances of finding the right guy for her. 


Make Arrangements to Meet More Than One Lady When You Visit

Sometimes, dates fall through at the last minute because of schedule conflicts, illness, or because the lady develops cold feet. If you are going to travel from abroad, it is best to have a few dates planned so you can meet different ladies in person and see how things go. Remember to handle the topic of multiple dates delicately. No one wants to feel that they are your back up or second choice.


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