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Is She the Right Lady for Me?

4. December 2009 by Daniel 0 Comments

Oftentimes, it can be tough to determine which Russian woman is right for you, especially when corresponding with so many of them on HotRussianBrides.com. Here are a few tips on how you can determine if a particular lady is indeed the one to be your Russian bride.


Does She Make You Feel Good?

Everyone has insecurities about themselves. Thus, when pursuing a relationship with someone, the potential partner typically is one who alleviates those concerns. Does your potential Russian bride make you feel good about who you are? Is she forgiving of your personal flaws and accepting of who you are? If yes, and you truly feel happy when you talk with her or visit her, then she certainly could be the right lady. Otherwise, if she enhances those insecurities or makes you feel inadequate, then it might not be worth it.


How Often Do You Think About Her?

When you’re on the job, in your car, or out tending to some other obligation, is she constantly on your mind? When she is on your mind, are the thoughts all positive? Or is there some flaw about her that troubles you? Are there other ladies you also think about? If it’s just her, it’s up to you to decide whether that’s a good or a bad thing. If it’s because you constantly want to be around her, that’s a good thing. If it’s something troubling or seems like more of an annoyance, it could mean otherwise.


Are You Comfortable Introducing Her to Family and Friends?

There’s that old saying that every man wants a girl he can take home to Mom. There’s probably some good advice to be gained from that saying – especially in the arena of online dating. Ask yourself if the Russian lady you like is someone intelligent, courteous and presentable enough for you to introduce her to the people who are already in your life. If it’s love, you should feel proud to let others get to know her as well.


Weighing the Positives and Negatives of a Relationship

If you are really not sure about whether to pursue a relationship with a particular Russian lady, take some time to weigh all of the pros and cons. If you find there are more reasons that you don’t think a relationship would work than reasons that it would, make your decision based on that. If there is an even balance of positives and negatives, perhaps it’s a sign that you should continue to get to know her better. Or else try to explore where things go with some of the other Russian ladies on HotRussianBrides.com.


Ultimately you will have to ask what’s in your heart. Do you truly feel you are in love with this particular lady? If the feeling is definitely there, then it could be that you have found the one special lady who will be your Russian bride.


But, as always, take it slow. You should get to know every lady you meet on HotRussianBrides.com very well using our services before agreeing to meet in person or making any big commitments.