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Letting Go of Rejection

4. April 2012 by Dasha 0 Comments

At times, a gentleman will find a lady on HRB that he believes is perfect for him. She’s attractive, intelligent, and warm, everything a guy could possibly want in a future wife. However, there’s just one problem. She doesn’t feel the same way about him. When faced with rejection, some men cut their losses and move on. Others refuse to let go, a reaction that is problematic.


Men who refuse to accept the fact that a lady isn’t interested are annoying at best and frightening at worst. Some men believe that if they’re just persistent enough, a lady will change her mind and give him a second shot. However, things rarely play out this way. Though the guy in the movies might always get the girl, real-life men do not always get the woman they want. If you continue to email and instant message women who clearly aren’t interested you risk looking desperate and creepy. You can’t change her mind, no matter how hard you try, so why waste valuable time and energy?


If a lady you fancy doesn’t share your romantic feelings, try to move on rather than win her over with persistence. It’s much more productive to focus on finding new love than to obsess over the one who turned you down. It’s also important to resist the urge to lash out at a lady who has hurt you or endlessly speculate about why she said no.


Rejection sucks, but there’s no reason to let it ruin your Russian dating experience. Rather than fixating on a lady who isn’t interested, try focusing on women who are open to a relationship with you. They’re definitely out there. You just have to be willing to let go of rejection and keep searching for The One.