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Social Scientists Reveal 5 Online Dating Tips

3. August 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

Social scientists at UC Berkeley's School of Information recently analyzed the content of thousands of online dating profiles to see how people market themselves and what preferences a person's profile content inadvertently reveals. Here’s what researchers found as well as 5 online dating tips they unearthed in the process.  

 

Choose a Good Profile Photo

Profile photos count! Users who post profiles with no photos or photos that are blurry and out of focus attract much less attention than those who take the time to select a quality photo. Wouldn’t you be more interested in a woman who included a picture in her profile than one who did not? According to researchers, women like men look “genuine,” “extroverted,” but not “overly warm or kind,” so go through your most recent photos and find the shots that best capture these adjectives.

 

Take the Time to Complete Your Profile Information

Researchers also found that “women like photographs but also value the self-descriptive narrative in profiles.” Unfortunately, many men on HotRussianBrides write a minimal amount of information, with some writing nothing at all. Take advantage of this opportunity to stand out from the crowd! Write about who you are and what kind of woman you’re hoping to meet. This helps the ladies learn more about you and will attract those who share your interests and goals.

 

Make Your Emails Count

Women, on average, receive a lot more email than men on dating websites and will therefore only respond to the most interesting messages. As one lady told Mercury News, “It's kind of overwhelming. I delete most off the bat — maybe 70 to 80 percent.” Who does she delete?  “The people who don't have photos, are immediately unappealing, maybe lightly insult me, misspell words or just don't say anything interesting at all.” If you want to entice a lady to respond to your emails (especially popular ladies), take the time to craft a message that is compelling, respectful, and personalized. Not sure where to start? Here are a few tips. 


The Importance of Introduction Emails

Four Tips That Will Increase Your Chances of an Email Reply

Introductory Emails: What NOT to Do

 

Less Is More

Another interesting fact that researchers discovered is that less is more. In fact, a team from Harvard Business School, Boston University, and Massachusetts Institute of Technology published a paper in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology on this very topic. Why? Besides the danger of overwhelming a potential partner, sharing a huge amount of information can cause people to “find more reasons to believe that they're very different,” and thus incompatible. Naturally, you’ll share a lot of information over the course of a relationship, but it’s generally best to keep things short and sweet in the early phases.

 

Meet Her!

If a man wants to determine if a woman he is courting online is marriage, or least long-term relationship, material he must meet her in person! “You really have to go on a first date to find out,” said UC Berkeley's Andrew Fiore. You’ll never have a Russian bride if you never travel to Russia for meetings, so don’t hesitate to plan a trip if you and a special lady have really hit it off. 

So what do men and women need to do in order to successfully date online? Post a quality profile photo, take the time to complete dating profiles, send quality introduction emails, don’t reveal too much too soon, and meet potential matches. These are things we’ve said all along! Though HotRussianBrides.com is different than traditional mainstream dating websites, the basic rules still apply.


Source: Mercury News