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Thinking About Heading Abroad?

6. July 2011 by Christy 0 Comments

With all the recent talk about meeting Russian women in person, many gentlemen are probably eager to pack up and head to Eastern Europe. However, despite what some might think, planning a trip to Russia or the Ukraine isn’t simply a matter of booking a plane ticket and emailing a lady your plans. Here are the exact steps you need to take.


Though you are understandably eager to head abroad, it’s generally best to establish a solid relationship with at least one lady before buying a plane ticket. How long does it take to build “a solid relationship?” While every situation is different, we generally recommend that couples take at least a few months to get to know one another before meeting in person. That way a lady and gentleman will feel more comfortable with one another, know that there is a good chance of compatibility, and don’t have to worry about awkward small talk or starting a relationship from scratch.


Once a gentleman is ready to head to Ukraine, he cannot simply buy a ticket and announce his intentions. First, a man should check with a lady to ensure she is available to meet on his preferred travel dates rather than assuming she will be available. Next, a gentleman must complete the following steps.


1. Become a Qualified Member

To become a Qualified Member, all a gentleman needs to do is spent 1,000 credits and have a current premium membership (Silver, Gold, or Platinum).

2. Complete the IMBRA Process

Once a gentleman has become a Qualified Member, he is eligible to complete the IMBRA process. Click here to view a step-by-step video tutorial.

3. Submit an Intimacy Request

Finally, gentlemen who wish to obtain a lady’s personal contact information and/or arrange in-person meetings must first submit an intimacy request to the lady in question and await her approval. Without an approval, an in-person meeting is simply not possible. View the Intimacy Request video tutorial here.

Each step takes anywhere between 24 hours to a couple of weeks, so gentlemen should allow ample time to complete the process.

Good luck and happy travels!