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What Not to Talk About When Getting to Know Your Russian Bride

13. October 2009 by Daniel 0 Comments

If you’ve hit it off with one of the beautiful Russian ladies on HotRussianBrides.com, you’re likely to want to move beyond the casual chit-chat of the getting-to-know-you stage of conversation. Whether you’re talking via video stream, exchanging e-mails, or actually meeting in person for the first time, it is important to remember not reveal too much too soon. Here are some tips on what not to talk about in becoming better acquainted with a lady.

Marriage

By its very nature, HotRussianBrides.com is a service whose goal is to lead members to find the love of their life. It is therefore natural that when you are taking your first journey into the world of Russian dating, a particular Russian bride might conjure up thoughts of marriage. And as much as you think your Russian lady might be enthusiastic about planning a marriage, discussing it at this point is premature. She needs to get to know you and you need to get to know her. Give it time.

Money and Financial Issues

Like it or not, the amount of money you have – or don’t have – can suggest a lot about you. Regardless of how much you have, a lady is not likely to be impressed if you brag about your personal wealth. Similarly, telling her you make very little or that you are up to your eyeballs in debt might lead her to make all kinds or assumptions about you and your personal spending habits. Bottom line – avoid money talk. There are better ways to try and impress her.

Relationship History

In general, women don’t care about your prior relationships. And to bring them up – or to bring up previous dates that you’ve been on – suggests that you’re still not over that person. A lady could be led to feel inadequate – as though she couldn’t possibly measure up to your ex – if you speak positively. If your reminisces are negative, she may see elements of herself in your criticisms and be inclined to believe that she can’t meet your standards.

Personal Secrets

It could be something as simple as the fact that you’re a secret country music fan. Or it could be something as dark and complex as a traumatic life experience you had. In any case, telling divulging your personal secrets early on could risk sabotaging the relationship by coloring her view of you.

Sex

Sex is a subject about which you have to tread carefully if you do bring it up. Chances are your Russian bride will either love talking about sex or cringe at the mention of the subject. Either way, you should avoid discussing it. It’s too easy to slip-up and say something embarrassing or give her too much information.

Whether you’re interacting with your lady online or in person, the best thing you can do is to keep the conversation light and simple. Building a relationship is a gradual process and giving away too much too early could spoil your chances for success.