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What Russian Women Don't Want

19. November 2009 by Daniel 0 Comments

The experience of getting to know a Russian woman online can be quite exhilarating and stressful at the same time. As is the case with traditional dating, the pressure is always on for you to make your best impression and attract the lady you like the best.


So what should you avoid doing in order to make the best impression? Here are five of the most common traits that can turn a Russian lady away.



Everyone can be a little messy from time to time. But there is a difference between occasional accumulation of clutter and habitual and prolific hoarding of trash. The latter is problematic. If your living room floor is coated with your last three months worth of junk mail or inside of your car is sprinkled with crumpled fast-food wrappers, it’s time you got out your trash bin and cleaned up a bit. And once you’re clean, try to get in the habit of staying clean.



The way you interact with other people says much about your values as a person. Making snide remarks to others in public and generally treating others with disdain will undoubtedly make your Russian lady wonder what you think, not only of other people, but of her as well.


Spending too Much – and Making a Show of it

Maybe you’re proud of your gigantic new house. Maybe you like to cruise the city streets with the top down on your BMW. Maybe you enjoy sailing on your yacht. All of this is fine, but it won’t necessarily make her any more interested in you. While you’re certainly right to be proud of your success, making a show of it can turn women away.


Speaking in “Guy-Talk”

Would you tell the same jokes to your friends as you would to a potential girlfriend? Would you brag about your favorite sports teams or the physical features of other attractive women? Talking to a Russian lady like she is one of your male friends demonstrates to her that you don’t know how to treat a lady. Or it could suggest that you don’t think of her as anything special.



If there is anything that annoys women looking for a serious relationship, it’s a man who demonstrates a reluctance to settle down. A guy who likes to go out partying on a regular basis or spends his after-work hours at the bar, is the kind of guy who is not viewed as husband material. Especially when talk of the future and eventual marriage comes up, Russian women look for a man with clear goals of where he wants to go. A man who shies away from marriage and family will be passed over.


With all of this in mind, the most important thing to remember is not to fret too much. When you meet that special Russian lady, she will like you for who you are no matter what. Find her today on HotRussianBrides.com.