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What Should I Talk About?

11. November 2009 by Christy 0 Comments

Making conversation can be difficult for any dater, and especially daunting for those pursuing love online. So what do women like to talk about? Read on for suggested topics and tips for getting her talking.

 

According to recent research, three things women like to discuss include:

 

1.    Hopes and Aspirations     

Inquiring about a lady’s hopes and dreams not only shows that you care, but also helps the two of you determine compatibility. Some questions to consider are: What are her long-term goals? Does she dream of being in a certain profession? Is she hoping to get married and have children? If her hopes and dreams closely correspond with your own, great. If not, don’t fret, but understand that vastly different goals could eventually cause problems in long-term relationships.

 

2.    Hobbies/General Interests

Sharing interests is a great way for couples to get to know one another. Ask your Russian sweetheart what she likes to do in her spare time. Does she enjoy exercising? Reading? Traveling? If you discover a common interest, ask more detailed questions and share your thoughts and ideas. You may also want to send pictures of you enjoying your favorite hobby and ask her to do the same. Many women discuss their hobbies and interests in their introduction videos so be sure to view your lady’s video if she has one.

 

3.    Friends

Friendships are very important to most women, so don’t be surprised if your lady wants to talk about her friends. Listen to what she has to say and ask questions. This shows that you care about her life and the people that are important to her. A person’s friends can say a lot about their personality, so you’ll likely learn a lot about your special lady.


Remember, this list is just a general guideline. Every woman is different so be perceptive and focus on topics that seem to interest her most. 


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