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Whisper Sweet Nothings, Not Scammer Somethings

15. September 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

Thanks to the unflattering myths about Russian women and Russian dating and the misleading information on blacklist sites and forums, many men are skeptical of HotRussianBrides.com and the women who use our service. Because of this, several members talk about the terrible things they've heard about Russian dating, how they seriously doubt any lady on the site is sincere, and how they’re not sure they can trust the woman they’re emailing. Do you think this is an effective courting technique? We can confidently say that it is not.

While we understand a gentleman’s need to be cautious, implying (or outright stating) that you think a lady is a fraud and that HotRussianBrides is a scam is a big mistake. Why? It insults women who are sincere and does nothing to discourage those who are not. After all, scammers don’t stop scamming just because someone calls them out and honest women resent having to “prove” they are sincere. There’s really no way to win when it comes to scammer accusations. Plus, how would you feel if the ladies constantly brought up the false and unflattering stereotypes about Western men? Hurt? Offended? Annoyed? Russian women feel the same way when men bring up scammers (which they do, a lot).

It’s okay to be skeptical and to have doubts about Russian dating, but the key is to not let these negative emotions creep into your emails and destroy your chances of success on HotRussianBrides.com