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Why Can’t I Find a Bride on HotRussianBrides?

16. October 2009 by Christy 0 Comments

Many men come to HotRussianBrides.com with the intention of getting married. While many of our members have found lifelong partners, other gentlemen are perplexed when their search for a future wife doesn’t go as expected. So why are some men successful and others not? It’s all in how they approach the search. Here are a couple of things to keep in mind in your hunt for a Russian bride.


Don’t Take Things Too Fast

A few men on our site are understandably excited by the beautiful and intelligent women on HotRussianBrides and want to find a lady to marry right away. They narrow down their search, single out a special lady, and begin corresponding with her. After a few months, or even a few weeks, the gentlemen may suggest marriage and is shocked when the lady does not agree. So what gives? It’s likely too soon. Russian women, like women everywhere, can be frightened off by suitors who move too fast. Take your time, get to know the lady, and see how things progress. The old saying, “good things come to those who wait” is a good axiom to keep in mind.


Remember That the Ladies Aren’t Available on Demand

Despite our name and preconceived notions about the so-called “mail order bride” industry, HotRussianBrides cannot guarantee you will find a Russian bride at the time of your choosing. Unlike pioneer days, men can no longer choose a woman from a catalog and have her shipped to their door. Our ladies are not only beautiful and sexy, they are also intelligent and independent, and most will not marry a gentleman just because he wants her to.  Woo your Russian lady, get to know her, make sure she is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with and vice versa. Besides, a relationship based on mutual love and respect is far more rewarding than one based on an appearance in a catalog.

If you keep these tips in mind when conducting your search, you may just find the lady of your dreams a little sooner. Not convinced? Check out our Testimonials and Featured Couples page to read about real men who found real love on HotRussianBrides.com.