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Why Haven’t I Found a Russian Bride?

7. January 2011 by Christy 0 Comments

From time to time, members will ask why they’ve been unable to find a wife on HotRussianBrides.com. While every situation is different, here are three things that can delay, or destroy, your chances of finding the Russian woman of your dreams.

Expecting Too Much, Too Soon

Many gentlemen become frustrated when they fail to find a Russian bride after a specific amount of time. However, Russian dating takes time and men must remember that each lady moves at her own pace. Slow down, take your time, and be sure to enjoy the experience! Gentlemen who do not fret about dating deadlines are generally more successful on our site than those who insist they must find a Russian bride in a few weeks or a few months.

Pursuing Women Who Are Not Compatible With You

If you haven’t found a Russian bride perhaps you’re simply contacting incompatible women. When determining which ladies to pursue, you may want to consider the following questions. Do we have anything in common? Do we have similar hopes for the future? Can we communicate? While some insist that opposites attract, studies have shown that men and women with common interests are more successful in the long run than those with opposing views.

Acting Inappropriately

While HotRussianBrides is a sexy name, gentlemen should not confuse the ladies on our site with those in an adult chat room. Men who immediately make lewd comments, send sexual messages, or request nude photos will have great difficulty finding a bride. Sure, some women have no problem sharing sexy photos or making saucy remarks (at the appropriate time, of course), but every lady is different and men should be on their best behavior, especially at first. 


While finding the Russian bride of your dreams can be a matter of timing and luck, it also takes a certain amount of skill. Rushing the Russian dating process, pursuing incompatible women, and acting inappropriately are three things that can destroy your chances of finding The One.