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What Do Russian Women Mean When They Say They Want a “Real Man?”

28. February 2012 by Dasha 0 Comments

Today’s Lady of the Day, PureSou, says she would like to find a REAL MAN who is looking for a serious relationship. And she’s not alone. Many of the ladies of HRB say they are searching for a “real man,” but what exactly do they mean by this phrase?


Different ladies have different ideas about it means to be a real man, but they generally mean an honest, mature gentleman who is ready to settle down. Basically, the women don’t want to date immature gents who play games or aren’t ready for a long-term commitment. If you’re not sure what a lady means when she says she wants a “real man” or “real gentleman,” look at the rest of her profile text to find clues. In PureSou’s case, a real man is likely one who wants a serious relationship. Katherinna says she wants “a real gentleman and a man of word,” so it’s likely her definition of a real man is one who is honest and sincere. MiraSlava writes a whole paragraph about her ideal gentlemen and asks if it’s a fair view of a real man. In her case, a real man appears to be one who is confident, positive, generous, and respectful.


Of course, the easiest way to learn what kind of gentleman a lady considers to be a real man is to get to know her and find out what she’s looking for. Profile text only conveys so much. Open and honest communication is the only way to form a meaningful connection with a Russian woman.