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Don't Hide Behind a Russian Dating Mask

10. September 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

When it comes to online dating, many singles hide behind a mask. They create a false persona in attempt to please others and never reveal their true selves. Russian dating is no different. Many gentlemen understandably want to impress the beautiful Russian women that grace our site and will pretend to be someone they’re not in an attempt to win the affection of a lady. This is always a bad idea.


Don’t Pretend to Be Someone You’re Not

Many people pretend to be the type of person they think others want to meet. For example, many gentlemen believe Russian women are primarily concerned with money and security and will therefore exaggerate or fabricate details about their lives to appear well off. Other men will act cool or play hard to get, even if they are crazy about a lady, because they think women want aloof bad boys. While some ladies do want a rich man or a guy who plays it cool, many others do not, and pretending to be something you’re not is exhausting, deceitful, and utterly pointless because sooner or later the truth will come out.  


Have the Courage to Be Yourself

Just be yourself. Your mom probably told you this all the time as a kid and the saying still holds true today. It may hurt more if a lady rejects the real you rather than the image you portray, but it’s much better to be yourself and find a lady who loves you as you are than to put up a false front and attract a lady who doesn’t love, or even know, the real you.

Only after you take off your Russian dating mask and show the ladies who you really are will you be able to find the one you want to spend the rest of your life with.