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The Things the Seduction Community Gets Right

8. November 2012 by Lorena 0 Comments

The seduction community and PUA experts get a lot wrong. But, it’s still right to give credit where credit is due. In between the secret code words and dehumanizing philosophy, there is a bit of solid advice that could benefit any man. As with any philosophy, the best thing to do is use what you can and leave the rest. Some PUA lessons you should take away with you:


Provide value. Think about what you bring to an interaction. Do your best to be warm, entertaining and fun to be around. And, while PUA’s advice of doing this through canned routines or gimmicks like magic tricks, you can expand on their recommendations by including being a good listener and taking a genuine interest in the ladies you chat with. PUA tricks tend to be more superficial since they are more oriented toward quick encounters with hundreds of women than a lifetime commitment to one.


The clothes make the man. A man cannot change how tall he is, of the cut of his jaw. But, a man can pick out a classic suit with perfect fit, shirts that flatter his build and a hair-cut that is well-maintained and fits the shape of his face. These factors can improve your looks and how attractive you are to women.


Abandon expectations. This is a bit of wisdom that PUA lifted from Eastern philosophy, so feel free to borrow it from them. Focus on your actions, and the enjoyment of the moment instead of hanging all your hopes on how someone else may or may not react to you. By enjoying each interaction in the moment and not getting hung up on whether or not something works out as planned, you save yourself from disappointment. This can be applied to any area of your life, from hopes to acquire a business contract to desires to win the affection of a beautiful Russian lady.


Always focus on self-improvement. Think about the ways that you can make yourself a better man. This goes back to the “provide value” advice. Could you become more physically fit? Learn a second language (say, Russian!)? Improve your understanding of worldwide current events? Always look at the ways that you can make yourself even more worth knowing. You not only make yourself more attractive to eligible ladies; you improve your enjoyment of life overall.


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