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Why (Else) Do You Think the Ladies Are Paid to Chat?

26. August 2010 by Christy 0 Comments

One of the most common myths about HotRussianBrides.com is that we pay ladies to chat. Last June, we addressed 5 reasons men believe this twisted tale and why gentleman don't have worry about such seemingly suspicious signs. Here are 3 more reasons men think our ladies are paid to chat and why they too are wrong.


“A Lady Said So!”

From time to time, gentlemen contact our customer service department and claim a lady on HotRussianBrides told him she’s paid to chat (or know someone online who heard this confession). While we go to great lengths to select reputable agencies and protect members from scammers, dishonest entities and shady ladies may still slip through the cracks. If a lady or agency violates our Terms of Use we will remove them from HotRussianBrides.com. However, we can’t act unless we have proof and that's something the vast majority of paid to chat confession stories simply don't have. Why? Because we don't pay Russian women to chat!

Members who come across a suspicious lady or hear a supposed paid to chat confession, should take down the lady’s User ID and save a record of their chats or emails. The more details the better! Vague or second-hand stories are not enough to ban an agency or a lady.


“She’ll Only Chat With Me On the Site”

Some ladies wish to communicate exclusively through HotRussianBrides, even after they have exchanged personal contact information with a gentleman. This causes some men to cry scam. After all, why would the ladies want to remain on the site unless they were getting paid?

There are several honest reasons a lady may wish to continue chatting through our site. Many women don’t have home computers and prefer to use the free equipment at local agencies. Some rely on the help of translators to effectively communicate with Western men. Others simply feel more safe and comfortable communicating through the service. Gentlemen should try to consider a lady’s situation and point of view before assuming she’s being paid. 


“I Read it On a Blacklist Site”

We are well aware of the blacklist websites and forum posts that insist we pay women to chat. However, gentlemen should carefully consider the source before blindly believing such tales. Who are the authors of these reports? Are they anonymous? Are they owners of Russian dating consulting firms or international matchmaking services, in other words competitors of HotRussianBrides? Are the authors somehow affiliated with our competitors? Are they disgruntled suitors who want to seek revenge? Most importantly, do they have proof, real proof, of any wrongdoing? Screen shots? Chat transcripts? User IDs? Objective gentlemen will see that the reports on blacklists aren’t nearly as unbiased or as black and white as the authors want men to believe.

No matter what we do, competitors and disgruntled suitors will always insist that HotRussianBrides is a scam. We simply ask that members and potential members approach our site objectively and give us a fair chance before buying into these scam tales.